53Great Date Ideas to Keep Your Marriage Fresh

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在你结婚之后继续约会你的配偶是一种保持你的方式romance alive, according to manymarriage counselorsand relationship experts. But no one ever seems to offer suggestions on where to go or what to do with your loved one. After all, going to the corner bistro every Saturday night can get a little stale.

为了帮助您集思广益,这里有55个令人兴奋的日期的想法 - 包括来自我们读者的一些人 - 这对于新婚夫妇和已婚审集兽医相似。

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Pick up the ingredients you need to create a fabulous meal at the grocery store and then return home and cook it together. Sip some vino while you cook or whip up amocktail让它额外放松和感性。

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Get to Cookin' in the Bedroom

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Throw a slumber party for two; serve dinner in bed and have each other for dessert. Participate in anonline sex workshopto learn something new, or generally level up your bedroom time together.

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Plan a Movie Night

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Decide on a genre, or even more fun, pick a theme! Stream a flick that you’ll both enjoy, make popcorn, and get cozy under the blanket on the couch.

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Go for a hike或长途走在一起。本质上脱颖而出,举行一些运动,互相联系。报道Greater Goodmagazine suggests spending time in nature is great for "helping us to reduce anxiety, brooding, and stress, and increase our attention capacity, creativity, and our ability to connect with other people."

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Go for a Ride

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Perform a duet at a karaoke bar. Better yet, reserve your own private room so you can get as loud as you want and even make out afterward, minus the dirty looks.

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Hop on a Wild Ride


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Go to a theme park and hold on to each other when the rollercoaster makes a dramatic drop. Then binge on funnel cake and take turns winning each other a stuffed animal.

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Take the Leap


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Head to the Zoo or Museum

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Get culturedor learn something new about reptiles together as you stroll through the exhibits holding hands.

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Music always brings people together. Jamming to live beats—even if you’re more Beethoven than Bon Jovi—is a great stress reliever, whether you're in an intimate performance space or a jam-packed arena.

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Take an Art Class Together

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You don't have to be Picasso to have a good time. Channel Patrick Swayze and Demi Moore inGhost并尝试陶器或其他肉欲的艺术活动,你可以弄脏你的手。

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Challenge Each Other to a Tournament

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Tennis, bowling, pool, or the arcade are always great for some friendly competition. Make things interesting and make a bet–loser has to make the winner dinner.

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Take a Staycation

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You don't have to go far to leave your worries behind. Check into a room at the hot new hotel, sleep in, get room service, and lounge by the pool. Or spruce up your space at home for住宿bliss.

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Let It Snow

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If you're lucky enough to live somewhere that snows, sledding and其他有趣的冬季活动对所有年龄段的人都很愉快。之后制作雪天使或简单地坐在寒冷的景观。

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Go for a Spin on a Motor Scooter

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Switch up your usual commute and go for a spin on a motor scooter together. Channel Audrey Hepburn and Gregory Peck in罗马假期!

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Take a Road Trip

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Road tripsare a wonderful way to break up your usual routine and liven things up. Go to the city or the country and enjoy a change of scenery.

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Pack a Picnic

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Fill up apicnic basket有好吃的面包,葡萄酒,奶酪和季节的水果。去公园,享受一些阳光,并在毯子上彼此分享你的宴会。

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Draw Sketches of One Another


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Even if you can’t draw, you’ll have fun connecting to your creative sides and create a lovely memory. Who knows, you may surprise yourselves.

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Glide around together at the nearest ice skating rink (a rollerskating rink works too). Warm up by a fireplace and share some hot cocoa afterward.

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Camp Out Under the Stars

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看起来不比你自己的后院和夜空为浪漫约会。或者进一步驱逐出现特殊旅行,并使用a明星应用程序to spot the constellations. If you are not an outdoorsy couple, opt for the planetarium for stargazing.

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Climb Mountains Together

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找到一个伟大的葡萄酒品尝,葡萄园或食物和葡萄酒搭配赛事。样品一些瓶子和bring homeyour favorites.

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Volunteer Your Time

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Try your luck at a casino or make a wager over your favorite board game at home.

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Check Out Open Houses

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Whether or not either of you are into real estate, you can just dream out loud about your future together or gather inspiration for your current space.

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Whip Out the Board Games

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There are manygreat board gamesto choose from–pick one or three of your favorites! For a twist, the winner has to take the loser out to dinner for another date night.

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If you've been needing jeans or a new winter coat, take your boo with you for a second opinion. No one will boost your confidence more. Take turns shopping for each other and carrying the load of bags.

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Get Down on the Dance Floor

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是时候灰尘灰尘!无论您是跳舞课程还是整晚都在俱乐部注册,只需确保您dance with each other。它不仅是一个梦幻般的锻炼,您将学习新的动作,并获得内啡肽从突然出汗。

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访问当地的跳蚤市场,葡萄酒或古董店找到一些二手宝石。Have fun trying on clothes from bygone eras or score a killer midcentury piece of furniture for the house.

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A night of spoken word or a poetry reading can spark romance–or at the very least a stimulating conversation. Grab a nightcap afterward to discuss.

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Campaign Together

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If you happen to share the same perspective, rally behind a cause you both believe in, whether that's petitioning to save your neighborhood park or rallying behind pet adoption. It will give you a strong sense of shared purpose.

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Make Love and Go All Out

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Kick things up a notch. Wear sexy lingerie, send each other naughty text messages all day, light candles, throw rose petals on and around the bed, use edible body paints–whatever floats your boats.

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Enjoy a hot air balloon ride. Bring somechampagneor sparkling cider and toast to the view.

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Couple wrapped in blanket watching sunset near a body of water

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Watch the sun rise or set from a beautiful location. This would be perfect during ahike, near your favorite beach or lake, or at your favorite restaurant with a view.

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Expand Your Palate

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Learn a New Language

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Why not find an exciting new way to communicate with your loved one? French, Italian, Spanish, and other romance languages sound beautiful and might be the perfect turn-on in bed.

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Go Fish

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Get close and enjoy good conversation while waiting for that first bite. You can opt to cook your catch when you reel something in, so it’s practically two dates in one.

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Tackle a Fun Home Project

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涂上你的地下室一个明亮的新颜色,安装你的家庭剧院,create a collageof wedding photos for that empty wall. You’ll work as a team, and your home will get a nice upgrade in the process.

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Rock the Boat

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Whether you rent a paddle boat or sail boat, enjoy the fresh breeze and calm waters with your favorite person.

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Read a Book

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Visit your local bookstore or library and browse around. You can each pick out what you like, then pick out a book for each other.

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你上次是什么时候解放军yed miniature golf? Bring back the classic high school date, but add a cocktail before or after to kick things up a notch.

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Tee Up for Tea

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Havehigh teawith scones and cucumber sandwiches at a ritzy hotel or tea house. You'll get to dress up and feel sophisticated for the afternoon.

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Go for a Wreck Record

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Bump each other with bumper cars or race each other in go karts. Either way, it'll be way more fun than driving in traffic.

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Nothing is hotter than total relaxation. A couple's massage at aspais practically guaranteed to put you both in the mood for romance afterward.

Below, a few more date ideas straight from our readers:

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"My husband is Italian, so we love to make our own pizza and enjoy it on what we like to call a 'floor picnic.' We go get all the ingredients, decant a nice bottle of red wine, and laugh and enjoy making dinner together. Then we set up a beautiful little floor picnic in the middle of our living room with floor pillows and poufs, candles, the works.All in the comfort of our own home。It's a great date for resetting and refocusing on each other. Unplugged, romantic, focused quality time." — @Ssavannahjaydee

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Explore Your Neighborhood

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"Our go-to date night is a walk through our neighborhood (downtownMinneapolis), followed by dinner and drinks on a patio or rooftop with a view." —@janielangdesign

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coffee and dessert

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"We have an almost-9-month-old, and we don't live near friends or family, so every Wednesday night we have 'wine Wednesday.' After we put our baby down to sleep, we open a nice bottle and sit and talk. No TV. Weather permitting, we sit on the porch. It's a good way to reconnect." —@slynnmattice.

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Get Fancy

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